21 day Challenge
with STEPHEN HEDGER
"Your Marriage Deserves More Than Survival – It Deserves a Reset."
In Just 21 Days, Learn What it Takes to Reclaim the Connection, Respect, and Love You Thought Was Lost – Without Therapy or Waiting for Your Partner to Change.
Nothing is working...
If you feel like you’re living as roommates, walking on eggshells, or constantly misunderstood…
If one of you is pulling away – and you’re scared you’re running out of time…
Then this 21-day process will help to change your approach.
Why Most Solutions Fail
Therapy often comes too late.
Books are helpful, but don’t show you how to apply anything.
Your partner may not be ready… but you know something has to shift now.
The 21-Day Marriage Decoder works because it doesn’t start with blame.
• It starts with clarity.
• Then leadership.
• Then lasting connection.
Even if your partner won’t engage – this can shift the dynamic for both of you.
What you'll get over 21 Days
Daily coaching emails
Short, powerful insights that cut through the noise
One clear shift per day
To reveal the emotional patterns sabotaging your connection
Simple actions
to take back control (without needing your partner to join in)
No fluff, no theory
just grounded, real-world tools that work
What’s Inside the 21-Day Marriage Decoder...
This isn’t just a course. It’s a guided reset.
Each day, you’ll unlock a targeted insight and action across five critical relationship pillars:
Each lesson is short, powerful, and practical. No fluff. No overwhelm. Just the next step that builds on the last.
You’ll Learn How To:
And if your partner’s not on board yet? You can still lead this change.
One person, with the right approach, can completely transform the dynamic.
This decoder shows you how.
How It Works:
You don’t need to figure this out alone.
You just need the right process — and 21 days to follow it.
Who It’s For:
> You’re tired of conflict, disconnection, or emotional distance.
> You’ve tried therapy, books, or talking — and nothing’s stuck.
> You know you’ve made progress in the 5-Day Challenge — and want to finish what you started.
> You’re not ready to give up. But you’re not willing to keep guessing either.
What Clients Say:
> “This gave me clarity I didn’t know I needed. Now I know how to show up, and what to stop doing.”
> “We were inches from separating. This changed everything.”
“Will this work if I’m the only one trying?”
Yes — This is designed to help individuals and couples learn how to take charge even if their partner won't take part.
You don’t need your partner on board to start turning things around.
You just need the right tools, the right mindset, and a strategy that shifts the emotional dynamic — fast.
This isn’t about fixing your partner.
It’s about becoming the version of you that changes how they experience the relationship.
Unlock the Full Picture — Before It’s Too Late
Unlock the Full Picture — Before It’s Too Late
If the 5-Day Challenge helped you see some of the truth…
…the 21-Day Decoder will help you build something better.
Because clarity without action leads nowhere.
But clarity + structure = transformation.
What Happens When You Join Today
Once you complete your enrolment, here’s what happens immediately:
1. Instant Access to the Full 21-Day Decoder
As soon as you join, you’ll receive a welcome email giving you access to the full program.
You'll go straight into Day 1 which is ready and waiting to help you reset your marriage from the inside out.
2. Your 21-Day Coaching Journey Begins
Each day, you’ll unlock a short, powerful lesson (10 minutes or less) that includes:
> A belief reframe to shift your mindset
> A core insight that reveals what’s really going on
> A coaching story so you can learn through real-life examples
> A single action step to begin leading the change — that day
You can do it at your own pace — but most clients tell us they look forward to each day like a lifeline.
3. Emotional Clarity from Day One
The first few days alone are designed to:
> Calm emotional overwhelm
> Show you exactly why the relationship feels stuck
> Rebuild your confidence and personal power — even if your partner isn’t engaging
Most clients say they feel more clarity in the first 3 days than they’ve had in years.
4. A Complete Relationship Reset — in 21 Days
By the end of the Decoder, you’ll walk away with:
> A full understanding of your marriage patterns
> A clear personal identity inside the relationship
> A practical way to rebuild attraction, connection, and teamwork — without pleading or performing
The tools to lead your relationship forward with strength and heart
This Isn’t Just a Course — It’s a Turning Point
You’ve been surviving.
This is where you start leading.
No pressure. No partner required. Just one committed person (you) — showing up with clarity and emotional leadership.
It starts today.